Is this b.i.t.c.h. SERIOUS?!

My lil cuz introduced this video to me. Some little ignorant twit named CNichole7 decided to speak about how she is VEXED by her own people of the SAME FRICKIN' RACE!!!

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Hypocrisy.
Ignorance.
Racism.
Stupidity.
Contradiction.
Inarticulate.
There's SOOOO much more this girl exudes in these videos. If this FOOL had any ounce of education and paid attention in her damn classes, she would know that no matter what she's mixed with, if she is of African-American descent then she IS African-American. This girl is no more above the group she's talking about. She's inarticulate, speaking the exact same way that the COONS, as she refers to them, do that are from the "hood". I'm bet this girl comes from the same place. The whole time she talked and degraded not only the entire African-American race but also herself. Just a female version of Uncle Ruckus. Notice how she dislikes "nigga" but uses the word like it's part of her vocabulary? If she'd given me a meaningful or tragic racial story about something that she witnessed and affected her then I'd take her seriously...but I just can't. And she's obviously does NO research either. Did ANYBODY tell her that Moorehouse is an ALL MALE SCHOOL? Smfh.

And why is it that Howard U. always the first thing people call out when they know NOTHING about HBCU's? *See Part 2 above* I've never been to an HBCU but I can name Dillard, Xavier, Prairie View, Texas Southern, Grambling, Alcorn State, Southern...I could go on and on. 

Besides, if this IDIOT dislikes BET and "niggas" then what the H-E-double hockey sticks was she doing at a BET event anyway? These kinds of people KILL me.

Mirror Mirror...

Have you ever met someone that always negatively gossip about others? The ones that claim to be Christians? The ones that ACK like they have no skeletons in their closets? You know, they live in glass houses.


So why when somebody makes an attempt to air their dirty laundry, they want to act like they can do no wrong? Most of the time people would back down from telling somebody about themselves but me? I keep going. I hate when people go around acting like they’re some kind of saint. Bitch fuckin’ puh-leez. I know one that actually BELIEVE they don’t talk about anybody behind their backs. What?! #BitchBooBye

I'm on a boat!!

  

 

It's no secret I love Sperry Top-siders. They're my favorite shoe, especially during the Spring and Summer. These go well with a nice polo, tee or button-down and either some flat front khaki pants or shorts, or a pair of plaid or cargo shorts with no socks. (I swear I feel like shooting anybody I see wearing these with socks) I already own 5 pair and I'm working on my 6th. From the looks of it, I'll be getting a 7th, 8th, 9th...you get the picture.

Now WAIT!!

It should be noted that I don't care too much for Bouncy. So when ABC aired her behind-the-scenes concert special, I Am...Yours, on Thanksgiving night, I was tuned in to my beloved Texas Longhorns' intense final regular season football game versus sucky rival Texas A&M, whom we defeated to advance to the Big 12 championship and possibly to the BCS Rose Bowl national title game (Hook 'em Horns!!) I have yet to watch Beysus' special but I hear the bish did the damn thang...well, according to the stans who believe she does no wrong via twitter. Anyway, I could care less. See for yourself.

Back to the 90s

This past week, two of the multi-platinum selling divas from the good ol 90's dropped new videos for there hot *underperforming* singles. Janet - Miss Jackson, if you're NASTY - premiered her video for "Make Me" this past Friday on the ABC primetime program 20/20 (a la Rihanna). The video is hot and the choreography is on point, although it gives me *Scream* teas. I ♥ JANET! *Janet's "Number Ones" is in stores now!*


Sultry, sexy diva Miss Toni Braxton previewed her video on the Wendy Williams Show for the remix of the first single, "Yesterday" featuring the sexy Trey Songz, for her new album entitled Pulse, due in February 2010. While I prefer the original track, I have come to love this version. Like Janet, Toni is the epitome of ageless beauty. She could go from long hair to short hair and black to blond and ALWAYS pull it off. I hate that she keeps resorting to less clothes to sell more (NOT that there's a problem with it). I don't understand Trey's purpose other than just looking cute. Check it out below:

I'm your biggest fan...

Press Play - Lady Gaga::Bad Romance::

Say what you want about Lady GaGa but I love this chick. She's talented and brings so much artistry in what she does. All her videos and performances be on POINT! GaGa shits on your favorite so-called Queen. I'm still mad that Bouncy made her tone down the appearance in that weak Video Phone.

Them hustlas keep on talkin'...

This shit kills me. It’s like every time I turn around, my name comes out of somebody’s mouth with negativity. Why do black folks, especially family, like to start some shit? I recently discovered somebody I’m TRYING to trust (and I think trust is over-rated) had been trying to dig up some dirt on me. This is supposed to be my best-est friend in the whole world, ever. Going in my friends list, conversations, tweets, emails. I discovered that by accident when I was using her laptop. She's even been trying to dig into my past for stuff that I haven't even told her about, let alone anybody else. Get this: she happens to be a cousin of my cousins. (Hope that makes sense, lol) Our messy ass cousins that always talk gossip shit behind your back but smile and be friendly in your face like all is good with the world. Little do they know.

Anyway, I noticed that she’s been acting all slick and sneaky lately. She forgets I’m a Scorpio; slick and sneaky is my nature. Oh, but wait until this blows up in her face.

But seriously, why must our people be on some hater shit? Like, they’re always worrying about you and what you’re doing then go talk some shit about you. I get tired of people dragging my name through dirt then ACT like they’re my friends. Then they ACT like they didn’t do anything but I ALWAYS find out. But whatever.

I figured that if somebody’s always worrying about what you got going on then they’re not happy about something in their own lives. We’re always going to have haters. If you don’t have any then you haven’t accomplished anything. Let your haters be your motivators because, after all, they’re just confused admirers. I got nothing but love for them.

The Blind Side: Is it too much?

For as long as I can remember, I believed that men and women can be friends without the emotional strings attached. Basically, without one or the other catching feelings and falling in love. And I believed this was true from my own experience. I’ve had plenty of female friends, some sexy and some ugly as hell (I know that’s mean but it’s the truth), and never had a problem. But lately, things start to be different.

You grow closer and become the best of friends there is. Then it happens. Sex gets involved. Big mistake. Next thing you know, you start sharing your deepest, darkest secrets, have intimate conversations about your future and next thing you know, “my” future becomes “our” future. The conversations becomes a “what-if” look into what life would be like if the two of you were together. But behold, you swore you had no feelings for her and she suddenly admits she REALLY likes you. Emotional attachment begins.

It’s what I’m dealing with right now. My bestest friend in the world admitted many months ago her feelings for me. I responded the only way I could: that her feelings aren’t reciprocated. I had to nip it in the bud and she seemed fine with it. However, she seems blind. Lately, I find myself feeling like I’m suddenly in a relationship when I KNOW that I’m single. The hugs (I hate hugs), cuddling, kissing…the whole nine. I start asking myself, “Am I sending the wrong signals?” I’ve never done anything out of the ordinary to show that I’m in “like” with her in any way. Now, it’s time to bring up “the talk” and unfortunately, someone is going to walk away heartbroken.

The question remains: will we still be friends or will things change? Only one way to find out…

Shawty, whatcho name iz?

Press Play: Beyonce featuring Lady GaGa::Video Phone (Extended Remix)::

Good video...but can you say, "over-hyped"? Thanks to Beysus' team and mostly her crazy ass stans, the song and video collaboration between Queen Bee and Lady GaGa to be SOOOOOOO damn EPIC that it did not live up to its hype. I'm barely a fan of Sasha so I didn't care much for the song anyway. I do like Lady GaGa, though. It's good to see her without all the EXTRA-ness and looking very GOOD normal. She held her own next to that...woman.

How Rude!

Getting back to me being an asshole.

Folks tend to get "real" and "rude" confused. I know can be an asshole sometimes. At least that’s what other people think. I’ll be the first to admit I have a temper problem but I’m not really an asshole. I just call it like I see it. I mean, why sugarcoat? I live by a policy and that is to keep it 100%. People always say that I’m rude because I have a slick mouth. I say that I’m just being honest, keeping it real. I’ll say what’s on my mind when I feel like it, no holds barred. I’m not going to hide it. If I feel like something needs to be said, I’ll say it. Half the time, it will be the same thing you're thinking but afraid to say. If a woman has six-month-old untamed and multi-colored yaki weave in her nappy ass head, I’m going to tell let her ass know. If there's a booger hanging out your nose, I’m going to let you know. Hell, I’m quick to tell somebody if their baby is ugly as hell. How is this being rude?

No, see, what’s rude is me walking around in my cousin's house all butt ass naked and sitting on the couch as if I paid for them. What’s rude is somebody calling people out of their names - i.e. bitch, ho, slut. What’s rude is the ugliest human being to ever walk the face of the earth trying to flirt with me. Now, if that last one ain’t the rudest of all rudeness…

Now, one thing I hate the most is when people ask you a question and then they tell you to give an honest answer. Some folks will tell you what you want to hear. Unh-unh, not me. I will be honest, brutally honest. It would be like God asking me questions about certain things I did in my life and I just can’t lie to him. It would be like Jim Carey in that movie “Liar Liar”. I speak the truth. Yet, when they get that honesty they asked for, they’re either mad or upset because it’s not what they want to hear. "I'm mad at you, you hurt my feelings, boo-fuckin-hoo!" Like, seriously? Weren’t you the one who asked me to be honest? If you know you’re sensitive and insecure, and you can’t handle truth well then don’t ask for it.

I’m going to always keep it real. Regardless of any situation, I will always speak my mind. Don’t get it confused with being rude. Calling me rude when I’m not is rude. C'est la vie, BIYATCH!!!

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Hi, I’m AJ and I’m an asshole. Well, not really…it depends on who you ask.
Allow me to introduce myself. Again, in case your glasses weren’t clean enough to read, my name is AJ. I’m a light-skinned black man (not African-American because I’m not from Africa). I reside in Houston, TX – born and bred. I love my French-Creole and Native American heritage. My grandparents moved here from Louisiana – Jennings and Opelousas to be exact. Thank Heavens because I’d kill myself if I ever had to live in the most boring places on earth. My mom’s folks I don’t claim; they’re country from Lufkin and Woodville, in east Texas. Good thing I take after my dad’s side, good hair and all. Both sides of my family are huge. I’m the eldest of five, my youngest brother and sister age 4 and 3. Yeah, I know…shut up.

I’m 25 years old and currently pursue a Bachelor of Science in Biology/Pre-medicine. Yes, I’m still an undergrad, so what? There was an unintentional three year break involved. Well, not exactly “unintentional”. Hell, I had to grow up and provide for myself since mommy wasn’t doing it. I want to attend the UT-Medical Branch here in Houston and become an Obstetrician/Gynecologist. If you’re slow, pick up a dictionary. And no, it’s not because I want to look at pussy all day.

In my free time, I love to write and listen to music. I’ve started three novels and a television script that’s kind of like a soap opera but of course, in true AJ fashion, none of them are finished. Lazy? I am but that’s not why. I hope soon I’ll be able to get back into writing and have my work published one day. As for music, I pretty much listen to all kind of genres from R&B to rock to hip-hop to gospel. Why limit myself? I’m the biggest Monica fan, and I also love Beyonce, Whitney “Newport Nippy” Houston, Daughtry, Nickelback, Kings of Leon, Trey Songz and Lady GaGa to name a few.

Basically, I started this blog to get some things off my chest and to speak my mind, and it’s the only outlet I have where folks I know and those close to me, like FAMILY, won’t know the shit I’m posting. I thought Twitter would be that outlet for me but they all followed me there and started a bunch of shit. Oh, well, I guess my life is your entertainment. That’s just the way it is. C’est la vie, sha.